Hey there, fellow event-goer! Ever found yourself at a Jewish event wondering if you’re the only one feeling a bit... out of place? We’ve all been there. Jewish events can be a mixed bag – maybe you’re not as knowledgeable about Jewish stuff as everyone else seems to be; maybe there’s some sort of “in joke” everyone seems to get but you; maybe you grew up without strong ties to Judaism or the Jewish community and the whole thing feels like you’ve been stuck in a strange world where Tevye has time traveled into a
n episode of Seinfeld.
Well, don't worry, Theatre Ariel has got your back. Here are 13 reasons why Jewish events aren’t always great—and how Theatre Ariel avoids these pitfalls.
The Intimidating Hebrew Don’t know your kiddush from your kadush? Hebrew can feel like an exclusive code, and you’re left nodding along, hoping no one notices you don’t understand a word.Avoid It: At Theatre Ariel, we keep it inclusive. Our performances are in English, with just the right sprinkle of Yiddishkeit (Jewishness) to keep it authentic. No secret codes needed. And when a bit of non-English slips in, there’s plenty of context clues to keep you clued-in. (BTW - kiddush is a prayer said over the wine at a holiday or Shabbat meal; kadosh means “holy” or “sacred”.)
The Never-Ending Prayers You think you're attending a fun event, but suddenly you’re in the middle of a marathon prayer session. It’s beautiful, sure, and you want to feel closer to your Judaism, but it’s also a tad overwhelming. And maybe you’re Jewish, but you’re not religious.Avoid It: Our plays explore Jewish themes without turning into a prayer service. Think of it as a cultural deep dive, minus the religious overload. And the only time you need to rise from your seats is to give the actors a well-deserved standing-O!
The Dress Code Confusion Is this a black-tie affair or can you rock up in jeans? Do I need a kippah? Will I be required to wear a tallis? Can I have bare arms? Avoid It: Come as you are. We’re more interested in your presence than your fashion choices. Comfort is key!
The In-Jokes Everyone’s laughing at something you just don’t get. Did you miss the memo?Avoid It: Our performances are designed to be accessible. You don’t need a PhD in Jewish Studies to get the jokes—just a love for good theatre.
The Feeling of Obligation Sometimes you’re there because you feel like you have to be, not because you want to be. After all, there’s three thousand years of tradition your parents and grandparents are expecting you to uphold! Avoid It: Theatre Ariel’s events are something you’ll genuinely want to attend. And since theatre is as much a Jewish tradition as bar mitzvahs and guilt trips, so you’re still “keeping the faith” in your own way.
The Religious Guilt Trips Whether it’s about not attending services enough or not keeping kosher, there’s always a bit of guilt sprinkled in.Avoid It: We’re all about celebrating Jewish culture in a welcoming, no-judgment zone. Come as you are, no guilt required.
The Pressure to Participate Being asked to read aloud or lead a song can be intimidating if you’re not prepared.Avoid It: Sit back, relax, and enjoy the show. The only people everyone’s watching are the actors.
The Heartfelt Fix: Theatre Ariel
Here’s the thing: Jewish events don’t have to be a drag. At Theatre Ariel, we believe in the power of storytelling to bring people together, celebrate our culture, and create meaningful connections. Our shows are crafted with care, designed to be both entertaining and thought-provoking.
So next time you’re looking for a Jewish event that won’t intimidate you, make you uncomfortable, or fill you with angst, just remember: Theatre Ariel has you covered. Come for the culture, stay for the community, and leave with a newfound appreciation for the rich tapestry of Jewish life.
See you at the theatre!
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